Deconstructing the Horrific Stella School Girls Murders: Delving Into the Dark Details of a Cold-Blooded Crime. The notorious case involves the brutal murder of two young girls who attended Stella School in a small town, sending shockwaves through the community. The meticulous investigation uncovered disturbing evidence of a calculated and heinous act, leaving authorities grappling with the chilling reality of the crime scene.
@CallMeKittyRawrr
Does parenting shape a person? Is his behavior due to the spoiled treatment? Or is a persons character ultimately inevitable no matter where they come from? If that makes sense lol
@iveliserojas612
I love your everyone of them but I’m not talking I’ll about the victims may the rest in pieces but my friends made a state that I honestly thought it was correct she stated ok dad say and ppl of the victim are good girls this that but my friends stated but they they lied they was sneaking boy into the dorm when her boy friend sneakers in he got kicked out but yeah she had her new boyfriend Brandon she sneaked him he could of got thrown out they lied to the lady stating they was having family members drop but it was a lie everybody was manipulated by those girl because their daddy spoiled but when the killer mom defended her son it an issue yeah he killed them but parents need to stop making thier out to be perfect angels because they I was the same with my daughter and come as teens the do things we don’t no I didn’t my daughter had bf smoked weed and had sex we see our as perfect angel like the dad with hes daughter we need to stop thinking our kids are perfect because she wasn’t she lied had her bf come be with it what got her first bf the killer kicked like she new that could got Brandon expelled so I’m sorry but as my friends said they gurl parents making the girls like innocent but they not if they wouldn’t of been lying sneaking boys in this wouldn’t of happened and to talk about the killers mom that she spoiled her son isn’t it the same with he believe he’s daughter was saint but she was hooking first with the killer who by got expelled but she didn’t why be-she is perfect and my friends stated it double standards the dad can say he has a perfect which he don’t she was lying to the lady had boys come to the dorm room but she perfect then the mom say her son is perfect everyone want to say she spoiled but it ok for dad to spoil he’s daughter and him not knowing what she behind him I think my friends say it double standards I did with thinking she this perfect and come to find she did things I didn’t she smoked had sex boyfriend 15 so as parents we can’t say our kids are perfect because we don’t know what kids do when they not with us it the statement of my friends they not defending the killer but they say it not fair to say that they are perfect angels because they wasn’t the was manipulated to everyone every friend are always she give the cloth behind her back it tiring to keep hearing ppl say that the victim are perfect when they anit and for the bf he not perfect but if u look at everyone talking bad about is the gurls side of her family friend and he side defended him it natural but the boy was in love and she had after two another boy in her dorm but she perfect bull no one is perfect as my friends said none is perfect because as u look teens are gonna lie manipulate the parents as she did with her dad and the lady
@iveliserojas612
So because the want Brandon to come sneak to be with the girl it why they got killed
@Burnadette28
Imagine giving the twerp time to take a shower and clean up the DNA that’s probably still on him.
@xl-origins
You cover more South African cases than any of the YouTubers I follow. We thank you so much.
@samidonberg7132
Anna st Asia not annastasieA 😑
@lisanee
poor mama's boy, killеd two girls with his own hands, but apparently being threatened with a gun is worth vomiting over🥺gross. we should've long time ago acknowledged that women will never be truly safe around their male partners. shit like that happens every day and i just can't help but feel completely devastated with everything knowing that.
@afroprince5262
I’m noticing a trend with boys/men who do things like this, it’s almost always a given that there’s an enabling mom .
@victoriabean5424
I’m so so sad for those two young girls. They were terrified and killed. Terrified.!!! And Xander’s father give me a break!!! Your son is a murderer and it’s probably some of your fault because you guys babied him and gave him everything that he wanted. He’s a spoiled rotten human being.
@MrKKmusic
Great job, many thanks!
@michellevanheerden7148
Hi Stephanie. I'm from South Africa and I just want to say thank you for you exquisite work in researching this case and your Afrikaans pronunciation. This was a horrific case like many others Sadly. Please can do an episode on Allison Botha. Her perpetrators got released after 28 years this year in June and is out on the streets. Alison survived but her story is truly horrific and I believe needs to be told shared.
@user-lj1mf5ho4u
KUDOS on the pronunciation!
@jaymac5346
I raised my children to respect themselves and others. To love their neighbor as they
love themselves and their family. And I always told my children that if they broke any law, I would turn them in and if proven guilty would not support them in any way. Might sound cruel. But, I now have two adult children who have happy families of their own. And they have been upstanding contributors to their local communities.
@Rainbowofthefallen
Just commenting for the algorithm 💙
@glenrissetto1874
I hope he doesn't get out….he didn't kill them in a crazy jealous rage… like a typical 21yo… he killed quietly, pre planned and organised… he's killed before, or planned kills, this guy, has already formed his core skill, means for social, personal advancement… killing!! I think he was just showing everyone how good a killer he is… he'll study the mistakes he made here… and improve his craft… he WILL kill again. This was just a high school crush!!! no wedding ring… no investments to split you don't lose face… zero complications..in a HIGH SCHOOL break up!!!! his second cousin, he could have just tied up, covered her mouth..oh noooo… were supposed to be impressed by his kill skills.. he's showing what a big man this f..khead is. That is not!! what a man does… its anti male -ness. my opinion… blessed angels forever paradise ❤️❤️
@elainejohnson6948
🕊🌹👧🏼💜👒🕊🕊🌹👧💜👒🕊Bless you+♡ 🌹all sadly taken away too soon♡🕊Bless your Dear Families ♡🕊
@oliviannie9705
South African here, thank you so much for not just sharing local crimes and sharing ones from across the globe. Waardeer dit baie, baie dankie! (Appreciate it so much, thank you!)
@mnaylor81
I wonder if they had cute the girl down as soon as they saw her is she would have made it with cpr.
@rennie8674
What if Sharnel was still alive but unconscious when the matron first came upon the scene.
@JL-xg6ll
In South Africa a woman is killed every 4 hours 😔
Thank you for teaching me that Stephanie. The safety of women & children needs to be a priority, everywhere.
@vjs4539
Violence against women is also higher in the US among the African American community. For the same reason violence against women is high in South Africa. It's the race.
@RhinehartGirls
47:08 the number of parents who are struggling financially to benefit horrid entitled children is ridiculous. The second I think my girls aren't appreciating what they have & comparing to others they get a reality check. This young man never got one until he was told no & he reacted by murdering two sweet beautiful young women with bright futures.
@RhinehartGirls
46:58 & expected to do all that after his father was telling Marna's father that they wanted him to face justice 💔
@jariahymn3028
My family rented a house in Spain in 2018 from someone from South Africa and they used WattsApp(don’t know how it’s spelled), they asked if we had it to be able to communicate if there was anything(we didn’t have it cuz it’s not really used much at home)
@birch04z06
Your intro song gives me so much nostalgia 😩
@georgannwayne492
I just love Stephanie 💜
@meraaiki6129
Life in South Africa is, sadly, only 25 years. Also, the judge has 2 assistants who attend the trial with the judge & assist with decisionmaking. But in the end, the judge finally decides.
@nattyrf511
As someone who has exceptionally respectful children that also hunt with their dad (girls included). Everyone is making issues of the guns. But he killed those precious girls with his bare hands.
Clearly. He was a narcissist. He also lived in a country that by the stats Stephanie shared has an extremely high rate of murderers against women.
The kid had control issue. Anger issues. Extreme narcissism. Someone should have noticed. His mommy should have been concerned. His father should have been present.
If everyone is concerned with the guns he didn't use to hurt these women, they miss the point.
On another note. My mother is a diagnosed narcissist. She too was raised a lot like Xander. Her parents barely had money but she owned things the wealthy children could not afford. To this day this 74 year old woman will do things like not eat "to punish" my siblings or father for not doing what she wants. These ppl do not change. They'll do anything to get what they want including hurt themselves or others.
@christiaancronje8090
They hang murderers in Botswana
@christiaancronje8090
Whatsapp is big in SA
@finegirl4429
Such beautiful, happy girls with their whole lives ahead of them, just gone because of an insecure, very sick boy. So horrible and sad. Love and prayers to their loved ones.
@lexyshannon9428
Xander is such a pathetic human being. Imagine having no such sense of self that you depend on on another person to fill the void in your soul.
Feeling like he was wronged so badly by someone not allowing him to control and hold them hostage in a relationship with no say in what they want??
NOBODY has the right to OWN a person. Nobody is better enough than another person to be OWED their livelihood.
He just couldn't grow up and deal with the fact that she wasn't "his", and never would be. He was so full of hate from being rejected that he decided to kill the person he loved the most. He was obsessed and sick.
I hope he forever lives with that void in his life knowing that, in the end, she still wasn't "his". Killing as an act of revenge did not fix or satisfy that.
In the end, she still did not need him in order to live a happy and functional life. And that's something he couldn't kill if he tried. She will have always been stronger in the shorter time she had on this Earth than he ever will hope to be with whatever time he has left.
@beastshawnee
mama “I am not ashamed of my child.”
You created this mess. His father created this mess. You should both be ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES! As well as ASHAMED OF HIM!
I don’t always blame the parents either but clearly spoiling him and encouraging sports hunting and dad being threatening and violent-You both should be in jail as well.
@r-l1214
Rejection is hard, especially at that tender age. But his behavior while they were together suggests he was likely to escalate to violence, regardless. 😢
@rouxannebredenkamp3872
im from south africa, i left in 2018.never heard of this case. so very sad
@user-gl1hz6ps3t
I love this song at the beginning of your video..she's like a sickness in my brain..what's the name of the song and who sings it please?
@hannagonzalez7729
I can’t see without my glasses -Velma
@aedansilva1114
Parents need to teach their sons to be less fragile …rejection is not the end of the world
@laellgreen
No excuse but I don't think any parent would want to see their child in an South African jail. It's not like the UK or the USA very very bad things happen to people. That kid is regretting every minute of his existence. Honestly it's hell on earth. He has probably lost control of his bowel movements let's just put it that way.
@jameshutcheson4910
South African prisons are really bad. Check out the numbers gang. Trigger warning for that research, for sure.
@IzzyOnTheMove
Never believe what a mother says about their son. My mother in law still insisted my ex-husband was not violent and had never been violent even after he tried to choke me 6 times (YES, it took me 6 times and 10 years to leave) and even after i had him committed to a mental hospital (he had Schizophrenia and refused medication), and he was threatening the staff in there to kill them. Never believe what a mother says about their son. They are either BLIND or IN DENIAL and they'll always think of him as the perfect angel who would never do anything bad. He also "worshipped me" at first and i was the love of his life. Until in his mind, i became the enemy. Different situations, but just saying. Never stay in an abusive relationship. i had the excuse of the mental illness, hoping it would get better when he would accept it and get treatment. He never did. And i won't stick around and risk being killed to find out if he does one day.
@mangojuice8038
Really, he is afraid for his safety, but he didn't care about taking two young womens life. This guys is a psychopathic narcissist, hope he never gets out.
@bentarbuck6161
does anyone else have a like mad appreciaton for law enforcement or PIs that can work on suspects, win them round and coax out information. most people would want to tear these peoples throats out. its like an art form
@jlou2001
Just discovered your channel today, this story is to sad 😢 and makes me so angry. I’m only half way through and praying to god that this worthless POS is rotting in jail for the rest of his life.
@ming0smeander507
spare the rod, spoil the child.
@topnotch01830
The 1 thing I disagree with Stephanie Harlowe is that she said it was such an "Extreme Scentence" – It wasn't extreme at all…2 life Sentences for 2 lives Stolen – it should have been the Death Penalty.
@tamaramixon6014
Just wondering but are the glasses you wear from the glasses USA because if they are I would not want them because you're constantly having to push them up on your face so are those the glasses you have or no?